Behaviour stems from the way your parents brought you up. The values they taught you, the morals they instilled in you and teaching you the difference between right and wrong.
This is what defines your behaviour and therefore everyone will behaviour in a different manner. Behaviour can be acceptable or unacceptable. This is determined by the person, based on the way they were brought up.
As a result feelings follow behaviour. People will determine whether other people's behaviour is acceptable based on what they know and have experienced. Feelings are then expressed based on the way one person behaviours towards another.
Behaviour needs to take place first and the feelings will follow. It is like an reaction to an action.
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Very true - I did not even think of it this way. So what you are saying is that my feelings that I have toward people depends on the way that they behave towards me!
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